There are several, legitimate reasons to host an adults-only wedding & reception (or other party/event):

• squealing babies and toddlers are not good background noise for your wedding video (or banquet/award ceremony)
• capacity (and fire codes) could be a concern at your venue(s), and you might prefer to invite more of your own friends
• your reception may include a cocktail-party atmosphere where children would not be comfortable
• you may prefer that your guests have a nice experience without the distractions of discipline, potty trips, and toddler entertainment
• weddings are not usually fun for kids: uncomfortable clothes, adult food, nothing to “do”
• if rowdy children cause any damage to the facilty or any equipment or rentals, you will incur fees from that vendor

Many people feel that a wedding is an adult event. While most good parents will talk to their children about the kind of behavior expected at such an important occassion, there is almost always someone who is neglectful in this manner.

Should you choose an adult-only wedding, reception or party, you might consider some ideas in this Washington Post article from Miss Manners — where she suggests separate, matching invitations for kids to a corresponding Children’s Party.

can easily help you plan a Children’s Party that will keep them busy and entertained.

A separate Children’s Party

• won’t add too much to your wedding budget
• will make for a nicer event for you, your guests, and the kids

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